If you have ever come across a strong and independent woman in life, then you know just how much of a bada** she is. She is a woman who knows her worth and is never going to tolerate any bad treatment or disrespect from anyone she interacts with – most especially not the men that she dates. However, she’s really a great catch and any guy who gets the opportunity to date her would be incredibly lucky.
That’s why you should always make it a point to take a woman like her for granted. If you have a legitimate shot at falling in love with her, then you should take that shot. You have an opportunity that isn’t necessarily afforded to most guys in the world. It’s rare. And that’s why you need to give it your absolute best effort possible.
However, that doesn’t mean that you should just be diving into things headfirst. There are a few things that you need to know about her before you make your move. You can’t be impulsive and uncalculated when it comes to a woman like her. You’re going to end up crashing and burning if that’s the case. You might not think that you deserve her but you still have to do your part in making sure that you keep her.
And that all starts with understanding her biggest no-no’s in a relationship. You have to know what things she will be intolerant of. You have to know what your deal-breakers are so that you don’t end up making potentially fatal mistakes for your relationship.
She is a challenging lady to be in a relationship with because she has incredibly high standards. She isn’t the kind of girl that all men are going to be able to land and keep. You really need to understand that she isn’t going to settle for mediocrity. And that’s why you must always be doing your part in making sure that you present yourself as a worthy partner for a woman like her.
You don’t want to be driving her away once you have her. She is a woman who most men only dream of having. And that’s why you want to make yourself aware of the things that she would never allow or tolerate in a relationship. Make sure to avoid doing these things if you really want to keep her in your life:
1. Controlling her life.
She isn’t going to want to be controlled by anyone. And the moment that you think that you can start calling the shots on her behalf is also the moment that she’s going to walk right out of that door.
2. Not treating her like a real partner.
If you really want to keep her in your life, you have to treat her like a real equal. You have to show her that you don’t see yourself as above or below her. You want her to know that you know how lucky you are to have her. But at the same time, you also need to show her that you’re worthy and deserving of her love.
3. Violating her boundaries.
She is never going to want to be with a man who would willingly violate the boundaries that she sets in a relationship. She is still going to want to be her own person. She is still going to value her independence greatly. And if you’re a guy who just can’t respect that about her, then she isn’t going to want to have anything to do with you.
4. Not paying attention to what she’s saying.
She is going to express herself a lot. She is someone who is always going to want to engage in deep and substantial conversations. That’s why it’s important to her to be with a partner who is actually going to listen to her and pay attention to what she’s saying. She is always going to want to feel heard and listened to.
5. Not showing support for her goals and dreams.
She is a highly ambitious and driven woman. If you think that she’s going to be content with living a life of just staying at home and doing nothing, then you’re wrong. She has many goals and dreams that she has set for yourself and your relationship. That’s why you need to make it a point to always show her support and encouragement for these things.
6. Not being open about your feelings and emotions.
You always have to make it a point, to be honest about your feelings and emotions with this lady. She isn’t going to be interested in playing mind-reader with any man that she dates. She is always going to expect you to be upfront and open about the things that are going through your mind. She isn’t going to want to have to deal with someone who is too scared to express himself.