Have you ever wondered why your lover seems a bit distant? Your first thought is probably that he just does not care about you anymore, but that’s not always the case. Because men are not like women.
Apparently, this is a male thing, that they can not express their feelings like women; and men are actually worried about those scary emotions that are hidden inside.
Remember that men like to play the protectors and when their feelings begin to fade, it’s no wonder they feel lost and scared.
Even if he does not behave distantly, he will probably still encounter new emotions that seem unknown to him.
Here are some telltale signs that he really likes you and wants a relationship, but is scared to death.
1. THE STABLE LOOK
I know that you know that strange feeling you get when a man stares at you. You can feel him watching you, and then you know that he no doubt feels happy to have you in his life.
If you could freeze the time, you would, because you do not want to catch him staring at you, because that would ruin the moment. Do not interrupt him when he stares at you, because if you do, that will tell him that you know that he really likes you and that will scare him even more.
Your best option is to enjoy the moment and allow it to stare at you.
2. DO NOT FORGET THAT HEART HAS ALREADY BEEN BROKEN
I think it’s safe to say that almost every man on the planet has had his heart broken before. No one likes being hurt and a guy will do just about anything to make sure he does not leave.
That’s a good reason why he will not give you his heart because he’s afraid you’ll break it, just like his last girlfriend did.
But that is completely normal, and when you put yourself in his position, you will understand why he behaves the way he behaves. It takes time to build trust as well as letting someone go. He just tries to make sure he is safe before giving you the opportunity to become his heart and soul.
3. HE ALWAYS CHANGES HIS MOOD
This is a clear indication that he is really interested in you , but is afraid to admit it to you or to yourself. In a minute he is loving and caring and in the next minute he seems to have slipped into the distance without really paying attention to you or getting into his daily life.
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In his brain, there is a struggle between admitting that he really likes you and the desire to run away far and wide rather than face his true feelings.
This will leave you wondering if he will let you into his heart or leave you.
These mixed signals are difficult to process. His behavior can be quite confusing and exhausting. That’s why you should not rush and leave because he is undecided. This sign tells you that he wants a relationship with you, but is afraid to admit it. Give him some time, and hopefully he will come to his senses.
4. HE LIKES TO CHILL WITH YOU
If a man likes to spend time with you, going to the movies, eating dinner or just watching TV, that’s a sign that he really likes you. If he did not like you, he would not waste his time with you.
If he just wanted a quick number, he would not do all this stuff with you, just meet up with you for sex.
This man feels good by your side, but it might be a bit premature for him to admit it.
5. HE IS NOT DUE TO MAKE THE FIRST STEP
With such a man, you have to follow your gut feeling. If you are sure that he likes you, but does not want to take the first step, to prove your thoughts, it is a clear indication that he wants to be with you but is afraid of it. You should be able to figure this out by the way he looks at you, behaves in your presence, and talks to you.
In some things in life, you can be sure and that’s one of them.
Maybe you are intimidating him? Maybe he thinks you do not like him?
The list of reasons why he does not take the first step is endless. Support him and make sure that you show him with your deeds and words, that he can talk to you and that you are in love with him, just like he is in you, even if he is afraid to admit it.
6. HE IS ALMOST NERVOUS IN YOUR NEARBY
Some men have a hard time dealing with their nerves before girls, especially women who like them. Maybe he seems a bit strange, or you notice he is restless or sweating like crazy. The good news is that this is a good indication that he’s on you and he’s just scared to tell you.
He probably does not have the self-confidence to believe that he will not mess things up by doing something stupid.
This man wants everything to be perfect and fears he might make a mistake and lose you forever. It’s normal to feel nervous around someone you try to impress. Therefore, consider that as a good thing, because it means that you are important to him. In any case, it’s a good start.
7. HIS FRIENDS KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU
This is a pretty obvious sign that he likes you. His friends are talking about you, even though he did not tell you anything. In the beginning, you may feel a bit taken aback, but do not let that initial feeling lead you in the wrong direction.
The reason his friends know everything about you is because he likes you seriously but is too scared to tell you something. You must know that you are a very happy woman.
8. HE IS ALWAYS RED IN THE FACE WHEN YOU ARE
That’s one of those things he can not control. You know what it’s like when your face suddenly blushes and you are at the mercy of your unconscious emotions.
Studies have shown that many men become nervous when they are near a girl they like. If you notice that he’s getting a little red in the face when he’s talking to you, that’s a good sign that he totally likes you and just does not want to admit it.
That means that your opinion matters to him and makes sure to leave a good impression. Do your best to make him feel comfortable so he does not have to worry so much about getting red in the face.
9. HE SCHWITZ, IF YOU ARE IN HIS NEAREST
Everyone tends to sweat when in an awkward situation. And for a man it’s perfectly normal to be sweaty when he’s just getting to know you. He tries to give you a good impression and all the little worries in his heart warm him.
Act as if you did not really notice and do your best to make him feel good. Respect him and do whatever it takes to make sure he is not ashamed of his excessive sweating. Because that happens to the best of us.
10. He overflows with compliments
There is no doubt that he likes you when he compliments you all the time. Because who does not like to hear compliments? But remember, if he exaggerates a bit, you may question his honesty.
Men like to compliment women just to see how they will react. Consider this as a test, because he wants to see if he can at some point find the courage to tell you exactly how much he likes you.
If he’s afraid to tell you how he feels, he’ll probably compliment you so keep your eyes wide open to see this sign.
11. HE IS A TRUE GENTLEMAN
Another clear sign that he really likes you is that he takes the trouble to open the door for you. We are talking about a true gentleman.
Unfortunately, many guys are total idiots, without any old-fashioned manners. You are especially lucky if your partner opens the door on the first date and continues to do so today.
12. HE FIRST MAKES YOUR STUPID JOKE
Even if you’re bad at telling jokes, he’ll laugh at your jokes and that’s a good sign that he’s in love with you. This guy is probably scared to tell you that he really likes you. He tries to make the situation enjoyable and that is his first step in admitting how he feels.
Keep your mind open and concentrate on the positive vibrations it gives you. Do not worry too much about the little things, because it’s a good sign that he’s laughing at your jokes.
13. HE HEARS YOU IF YOU REDEEM
There is no doubt that a man who always has an open ear for your problems will eventually become a super partner. That’s a sign that he likes you, but is just too cowardly to admit that. He tells you that no matter what happens, he will be there for you when you need him. Such behavior means everything in a strong and healthy relationship.
Do not forget to listen to him and support him. Because a relationship consists of taking and giving.
14. HE AVOID EYE CONTACT
Experts say that body language is extremely important in every respect, especially when you are in a new relationship. This is pretty hard to figure out, but if he stares at you and then suddenly looks elsewhere, it means he likes you but does not have the guts to tell you.
The truth is, he may never be able to tell you that he likes you. But maybe he’ll feel better if he writes that to you in a message.
This is another strong sign that he wants to be with you and maybe it will be some time before he releases his fear to tell you.
15. HE NEVER ASKS AFTER ONE DATE
You must be aware that in some cases even the best men in the world will be shy. That does not mean he does not want to ask you for a date, but he just has not found the right moment.
Be patient and give him the chance to make you the happiest woman in the world.
16. HE IS ALWAYS TRYING TO PROTECT YOU
When a man does everything in his power to solve your problems, he shows you that you care about him, but he may just be too scared to tell you. Give him some time to gain courage, because some men just behave like that.
With such behavior he only wants to show you that he likes you and hopefully he will soon reveal his feelings to you.
17. HE WRITES YOU ALWAYS NEWS
If a man likes a woman, he wants to know what she has in mind and how her day has gone. That’s why he might write you a message in the morning and just before going to bed.
So he wants to show you that he wants to spend time with you but is too scared to admit it to you. Give him a chance to get to know you better, before you worry too much about why he does not reveal his true feelings to you.
18. HE IS JEALOUS
It does not matter if you are a couple or not, because if the man becomes jealous when other men come near you, it is a clear indication that he wants you all to himself.
He just may not have the guts to tell you exactly how he feels about you. Give it some time, because we all know that men can be very complicated.
19. HE HAS TO FEAR THAT HE IS IN A RELATIONSHIP
There are guys who get scared when you announce the relationship as official. But do not worry about that, because ultimately it’s all about what he feels for you and how you feel. Therefore, trust your gut feeling and do not analyze anything too much.
If a man is too interested in a woman, it is a natural fact that he is probably afraid to admit it.
20. HE HAS NO INTEREST IN OTHER WOMEN
If you meet with a man all the time and he chooses not to mention other women, that’s a sign that he definitely likes you and is not ready to tell you. So he shows you that you are the only woman he thinks about, and that’s just great.
It may be that his buddies make fun of him, but he does not care. Because he wants a woman by his side and this woman is you. So concentrate on it and everything else will find its place.
21. HE ASSISTES YOU FULLY AND WHOLE
We all go through difficult times and when you’ve found a man who wants to comfort you in those moments, he definitely wants to be with you and probably just scared to take that step.
Guys know how important it is to support the person you love or care for. So if he’s on you, he’ll do his best to be there for you when you need him. You can trust this guy because he will always be your biggest support.
22. HE WATCHES THE DETAILS
When a man tries to remember the smallest details for you, it shows that he is a man on a mission to win your heart. Just because he did not tell you he likes you does not mean it’s true.
If he remembers the names of your family members, knows what kind of food your dog likes and has no problem bringing you a perfectly prepared coffee, then you’re definitely a lucky guy. If a man does not like a woman, then he definitely will not remember those things, which means he has no personal interest in you.
The man who wants to show you that he pays attention to details has earned a place in your heart. So give him some time until he recognizes that and then admits it to you.
23. HIS FRIENDS TELL WHAT HE RECOMMENDS FOR YOU
If his friends are the ones who betray him and tell you that he likes you, that’s a sure sign that that’s the case, but now has the problem of how to tell you that. But leave it for some time as it is and trust that it will soon overcome its fears and tell you soon what it feels for you.
Also, you should know that when a man likes a woman, sometimes he does not have the guts to admit it, because he thinks she could pressure him with some ultimatums. That’s just going to knock him off track, and that’s not what you want.
24. HE FEELS WHAT YOU FEEL
If a man really likes a woman, he will be saddened when she feels bad. He will always be by your side and comfort you as soon as he sees that something is wrong.
For example, if you are depressed, he will not be able to laugh until you feel better. Thus, it shows you that it cares about you and your well-being and that is crucial for building a healthy and strong relationship.
And if he really wants to make you laugh, he will hopefully overcome his fears to be with you in a real relationship and tell you exactly what he feels.
25. HE HAS THE COURAGE TO SAY TO YOU WHAT HE RECEIVES FOR YOU
If a man really likes a woman, he will show it by revealing his feelings. Because it will be difficult for him to imagine you with another guy. This idea would probably drive him crazy because he knows how valuable you are.
One day he will have no choice but to tell you how much he likes you or he will risk losing you forever.
And of course, the moment he opens up to tell you about his feelings, it will be a clear sign that he wants a future with you.
It’s hard to figure out if a man is in love with you head over heels. These signs are just a few hints that he really likes you, but only has the fear to tell you. We know that timing is everything, but the easiest way to find out if a man wants a relationship with you is to ask him personally.
You have to be brave and ask him about his feelings, because if you do not, you may lose the chance of having the best man by your side.
After all, you have to find out if he wants to be with you or not. Because when it comes to love and feelings, it is better to know the truth sooner rather than later.
Love is like putting together a puzzle. Follow your husband and use these useful signs to clear the doubt and find out if he’s really in love with you. Stay positive and take this step.