Ladies, let’s face it. We’ve all been single in the past. Don’t get us wrong—being single can be incredibly fun! It’s exciting to have no one to answer to and the world at your feet.
However, there comes a time in every woman’s life where she wants to find a good man to settle down with. Deep down, we all want to find ‘the one’ at some stage in our lives. However, what many girls don’t realise is that they could actually be stopping themselves from finding a good man. Indeed, some
Indeed, some behaviour many females exhibit could be the exact reason why they are still single and struggling to find a committed relationship.
If you want to find a good man, plain and simple – you need to stop putting your guard up. You might initially say that you don’t think that you do but trust us, so many women don’t let themselves fall for someone.
There are a number of reasons why a girl might have her guard up. Perhaps she’s been hurt before. If you’ve had a boyfriend who’s cheated on you or broken your heart, then naturally you’ll be trying to navigate the dating landscape whilst protecting your heart at the same time.
However, when you’re trying to protect yourself, often, you’re not letting any potential suitors to get to know the real you. When you have your guard up, as much as you may think that you’re taking care of yourself, what you’re actually doing is shutting someone else out.
Another reason why you might have your guard up when it comes to love is that you might be self-conscious and struggling to realise your self-worth. We accept the love that we think we deserve, and if you don’t feel like you deserve a good man deep down, then you might not allow yourself to accept the attention of someone who is simply amazing.
You need to work on your self-love before you’re ready to accept love from anyone else. If you want to find a good man and settle down, then you need to be happy and comfortable in your own skin.
By keeping your heart under lock and key, for whatever reason that might be, you’re creating a barrier that is almost impossible to break. This means that all of the gorgeous and good men who could make you so happy aren’t getting the opportunity to be close enough.
If you want to find a good man, you need to let go of your inhibitions. You need to learn to love again. You need to trust your instincts. You need to relax. You need to learn to trust others again. You need to learn your self-worth. You need to realise what you deserve. You need to learn to let go. You need to learn to chase what you want. You need to accept the love of others. You need to let yourself fall for someone.
Stop guarding yourself and open your heart to love. You’ll be amazed how happy your life can be.