Due to the fact that they are extremely emotional, they are guarded. They will never fall in love so easily themselves, because they are smart enough to avoid heartbreak and unnecessary pain.
This doesn’t seem to be a problem for them, because they are very independent and therefore they are used to being alone. The need for independence is so strong that they will always put themselves first.
If you’re dating a Scorpio, good luck! They are so hot and cold. One minute they love you and the next they hate your guts. They are so tricky and so trying to understand them is almost impossible. You never know what goes on in their heads.
Due to the first impression that they leave on people, people don’t like them so much. That’s why Scorpios don’t trust anyone and they use their wit and sarcasm as a defense mechanism. If you want to get a Scorpio to love you, you will have to go the extra mile to please them and prove yourself worthy.
They love being in love, it’s just that the process of falling in love is the hard part for them. They are searching for their ideal, which is so hard to find. You can never please a Capricorn.
Even if they find the ideal person, and if they fall in love with that person, they end up disappointed, because the ideal they had in mind is not the ideal they fell in love with.
Capricorns have really high standards and it’s hard to live up to their expectations. So, they choose instead to skip the disappointment and not fall in love in the first place.
They are hopeless romantics and it’s really easy to fall in love with them. But to get them to fall in love with someone is a completely different matter. They always blame themselves when anything goes wrong. If you ask them, every unsuccessful relationship they had is their fault.
They don’t know how to learn from their mistakes, so they get stuck in the past and hold themselves responsible because their relationship failed.
Their biggest problem is that they associate love with pain. Also, they set the dating bar so high that it’s impossible to achieve what they want. But, on the other hand, they deserve nothing less than what they want.
They believe that showing their emotions is a sign of weakness. That’s why they put on a harsh exterior. They seem cold and bitchy, while they are actually extremely sensitive and loving people. They are just afraid to show it.
They are the ones who like to be in charge and they want to take control of every situation and that’s why they need a partner who is more passive.
Getting a Taurus to love you is very difficult. They are very familiar with manipulation and having people do what they want. But, once you get them to fall in love with you, you’re going to experience a love that will literally last forever.