This year is the time for self-consciousness. You need to direct your energy and put it to good use. There are going to be chances for you, but you don’t have to take all of them. You can skip something every now and then and fight for what you really want and deserve.
Don’t waste that Aries passion you’ve got inside. Get to know yourself a bit better and make a list of things you really want to do and enjoy doing. Use this time to think and care about yourself—not that you care about what others think anyway.
Also, you have to stop pressuring yourself into doing things you’re probably not capable of doing. You have to accept that you have your weaknesses just like everybody else. Learn when it’s time to give up because being stubborn about a certain thing will not get you anywhere.
You have to definitely step out of your comfort zone. Put yourself out there and do the things you want to do but don’t feel comfortable doing. Because when you think about it, you only get one chance in life, so you wouldn’t want to spend it regretting some things you didn’t do.
Do all the things you would never normally do. Go to the restaurant alone, don’t order the same old takeout like every other time, travel, explore new places, read a book or play a game that you wouldn’t normally choose.
All of these things are going to be scary for you, but new is scary; that’s perfectly understandable. Use 2019 as the year you’ve turned your life around. You will be glad.
You have to get back in touch with yourself. Up until now, you’ve done everything that you can to keep your relationships with other people alive. You’ve hung out with people and you’ve been their support in everything. Well, in that process, you forgot about yourself. You completely neglected the most important person in your life—you.
In 2019, spend as much time as you can alone. Think about what you need and want. Spend the night at home with popcorn and Netflix or go to the movies to watch a movie you’ve been waiting for.
You’ll probably be lonely at first, but it’s the best way to get some alone time with that great mind of yours.
Because you are a sensitive crab, in 2019 you’ll definitely have to open up a bit, both emotionally and intellectually. You have to stop sheltering yourself from broken hearts and evil people. These things will never disappear so you have to learn to deal with them.
You usually avoid letting people get to you. You never make the first move and that’s why you are always stuck in almost relationships. You do all this because of the fear of getting hurt.
In 2019, speak up for yourself and don’t let anyone walk all over you because they will do if you keep your mouth shut. Walk up to people in bars and don’t be afraid of getting turned down.
These things happen all the time. There will be someone else who won’t turn you down. You just have to keep trying.
In 2019 you’ll have to concentrate on listening and not speaking all the time. You are used to being the center of attention and you know that whatever you say is smart and important. Well, there are other people out there who think the same thing. So, broaden your horizons and hear what others have to say.
Hang out with people and listen to their stories. Ask them questions and you’ll have damn good stories to share the next time that all eyes are on you..
You have to pay more attention to yourself and how you’re feeling. It’s not your duty to wander around the world helping people who want or don’t want your help. You cannot save everyone, especially if they don’t want to be saved. After a crappy year in 2017, you should totally focus on what you need and what makes you happy.
Stand up for yourself and take care of your body and mind. If you don’t like where your relationship is going, say it early on because if you keep giving second chances, it’s going to be too late.
You should seriously stop obsessing over what other people think about you and the things you’re doing. Librans desperately want other people’s approval. Well, in 2018, it’s time to do something you want, not something your mom would be happy about, or something your friend likes. Do. Something. For. Yourself.
The problem is that a lot of people will get angry with you because they are used to snapping their fingers and you jumping to the given task. They are used to you always helping them and putting them first. But, they will get used to it and once others see that you made yourself a priority as you should have done a long time ago, they will leave you alone..
You should learn to see the middle of things because, in your life, you see either the best or worst case scenarios. There is no middle whatsoever. Don’t look at everything in just black and white. Find that gray area. If you’ve had a shitty day with potentially good things happening, embrace those potential good things and your day won’t be shitty anymore. It won’t be perfect, but it won’t be shitty either.
In 2018, find that gray area. Look for that happy moment on a crappy day and don’t look at your day as a waste, but that you saved it and turned it into a gray one.
Such an adventurous spirit like you should really settle down in 2019. You have to be ready to commit. There’s no more running like crazy, no more avoiding issues. Sure, you’ll still be adventurous, but tone it down a bit.
Since you have trouble with committing to anything at all, in 2019 try setting a goal of any kind for yourself. Whether it’s signing up for an art class or pretty much anything else, stick to it and try to fulfill it and then you will be able to cross over to bigger things. Remember, baby steps.
You should run wild and finally have some serious fun. You’re obsessing so much about work and your commitments that you forget to live your life in the process. Turn off your email notifications and your social media accounts and go away for a while. Go on vacation and just have fun. Try not to think about what awaits you at home.
So, in 2019, put your career to the side and enjoy yourself. Nothing bad is going to happen if you go out on Friday night instead of staying at home working. Your career is not going to fall apart and you might instead have the time of your life. Because if you stick to what you’re already doing, you’ll be sorry one day that you pushed yourself so hard.
Use this year to make a difference; do good in a sneaky and corrupt world. Aquarians are do-gooders by nature, so this won’t be a problem for you. Engage yourself in social and political activities and try to do your best for the greater good.
Put an emphasis on your education because it’s the key to solving a problem that you will encounter. If you have the knowledge, you will be able to solve the problem. Do some volunteering. Not only will it make you feel better, but it will benefit others.
If you ever hear a hate speech of any kind, oppose it and speak up about it. Don’t stand aside and observe injustice. Do something about it. Maybe not everyone will get what you’re doing, but if your words and deeds get through to at least one person, you’ve made a difference.
In 2019, you should not take yourself so seriously. Stop thinking about your emotions so much. Stop analyzing every little thing that you feel. Either you’re sad, happy or angry—it’s that simple. Don’t make a huge deal out of it. None of the emotions that you are experiencing are permanent, they all pass or they all mix together. That’s what gives your life a thrill.
Of course, this doesn’t mean you should ignore your emotions, and especially not when they are for someone who is as deep as you are. All feelings are there for a reason. You just have to learn which feelings are worth stressing about and which ones you should just let go and they will pass.